Thereafter, the more questions you answer, the more likelihood the OKC algorithm will find you a match.What this means is, with not much thought, you can fairly easily sculpt your profile to find, for example, a gay eugenics pipe smoker.The profusion of kinky folk can get fairly terrifying at times, especially if, like me, your sexual appetites are fairly tame.

Ok Cupid (OKC) stands out because it is one of the biggest dating sites out there.

It's has 30 million active users, with a million logging in every day.

So, even if you think there’s only a million to one chance someone will date you, in theory, there’s a man/woman/omnisexual on here for you. Well, strangely, it's actually one of the immediate problems with OKC.

The site as an absolute hive of polyamorous kinksters, furries and other assorted people at the odd end of the dating site pool.

It seems that the world's more extreme sexual daters have found safety in the OKC numbers game and gathered in one place to pester each other. When you sign up to the site, as well as drafting the normal essay about how great you are and uploading four out of focus photographs from that period in 2006 when you were hot, you answer a raft of multiple choice questions.

These range from the fairly ordinary (“Could you date a smoker?

”) to the exceptionally weird (“What are your opinions on Eugenics? The questions are picked at random from a list of tens of thousands.

You have to answer 50 to begin with, so the site can build a picture of what you are.

Long story short, it involved going to her sex dungeon and being locked in a cage while she choked me and her husband relieved himself on me.